{"id":433,"date":"2011-07-05T21:22:00","date_gmt":"2011-07-05T21:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bestfantasynovel.com\/2011\/07\/05\/why-we-love-princesses\/"},"modified":"2011-07-05T21:22:00","modified_gmt":"2011-07-05T21:22:00","slug":"why-we-love-princesses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/taramayastales.com\/bestfantasynovel\/2011\/07\/05\/why-we-love-princesses\/","title":{"rendered":"Why We Love Princesses"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n\n
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Princess Kate gets hitched.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

I love princesses. I should. A princess taught me to read. A princess convinced me to get married. And a princess made my dream come true.<\/p>\n

But I met a guy once who hated princesses. He was a Spanish anarchist who would hold up protest signs whenever any Spanish royalty showed up. The problem, he complained at a dinner party attended by radicals, pacifists and intellectuals, was that just about everyone in Spain adored the Spanish royal family, and for good reason. The king of Spain had defied terrorists to defend democracy. <\/p>\n

The anarchist didn\u2019t care. \u201cI hate the kings. But I especially hate the damn princesses.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI love princesses,\u201d said the activist next to me. \u201cI LOVE them!\u201d<\/p>\n

She and the gay guy on her other side then started talking Princess Fashion Tips.<\/p>\n

The anarchist rolled his eyes. I wondered if he was right. Are we unhealthily obsessed with royalty?<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
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Dany from Game of Thrones.\u00a0<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Some examples:<\/p>\n

\u2022 The Royal Wedding.<\/a>\"\" Need I say more? Just as Princess Diana was the idol of millions, Princess Kate is the new darling. Ok, I know she\u2019s actually \u201cDuchess Kate,\u201d but she did marry a prince. And let\u2019s face it, if she invited you to tea, you would totally be tweeting all your friends, \u201cCheck me out having tea with a princess!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u2022 Game of Thrones<\/a>\"\". This is the most awesome new fantasy series on television, and it\u2019s all about kings and princesses and warriors and barbarians vying for power.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Harry Potter<\/a>\"\". Wait a minute, you\u2019re saying. There are no princesses in Harry Potter. That\u2019s true. But there is a half-blood prince<\/a>\"\". I rest my case.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Snape, I love you.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

Let\u2019s face it, even when the word \u201cprincess\u201d is not used, the role sneaks in. For instance, in my epic fantasy series The Unfinished Song<\/a>\"\", there are no kings or princesses. But there is a Vaedi: The one girl in all the world with the magic to fight Death. The hottie warrior who loves her is not called a prince. He\u2019s just the biggest badass of all.<\/p>\n

Is there something wrong with us for being so interested in royalty in the age of democracy? I don\u2019t think so, because I believe our obsession about princesses isn\u2019t really about princesses at all. It\u2019s about fairytales. You might think fairytales exalt royalty, but they don\u2019t. They exalt common heroes. The boy or girl who is plucky and compassionate and daring is the one who becomes the prince or princess at the end of the story.<\/p>\n

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The princess who taught me to read wasn\u2019t born a princess. She didn\u2019t even marry a prince. Her name was Sarah Crewe and you might know her. She was the heroine of A Little Princess<\/a>\"\", the 1905 children’s novel by Frances Hodgson Burnett<\/a>\"\".<\/p>\n

In second grade, when most of the kids around me were already reading primers, I couldn\u2019t read three words. I had dyslexia and reading was just like torture for me. Then my grandmother began reading to me from A Little Princess<\/i> every night. One chapter at a time. And suddenly the torture of needing to know what happened in the next chapter overpowered the challenge of reading. I don\u2019t know how my brain made the leap. I just knew I couldn\u2019t wait to find out what happened to Sarah Crewe and I raced ahead, finishing the rest of the book by myself in one day. It was \u201cthe Magic\u201d just like in the story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
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As you wish.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

I went from being unable to read at all to being a voracious reader. That\u2019s how another princess came to unite me with my true love. When I met a man who took me to a bookstore for our second date, I knew I had found a prince. Flashforward half a year, and he bought me a copy of The Princess Bride<\/a>\"\". Inside, painstakingly fitted into the chapter entitled, \u201cThe Bride,\u201d gleamed a diamond ring. That day I was amazed to discover that when he was saying, \u201cRead this book,\u201d what he meant was, \u201cI love you.\u201d<\/a>\"\"\"\"And even more amazing was that I realized I truly loved him back.<\/p>\n

The princess who pushed me to follow my dream was Dindi<\/a>\"\". She\u2019s not really a princess either, she\u2019s just a girl who is plucky and compassionate and daring, who insisted that I write her story. Ten years of research, writing, re-writing, querying agents, and finally publishing went into achieving that dream. I went from being a kid who couldn\u2019t learn to read to a fanatic reader to a published author. When I think about that, I feel so grateful to all my readers, the fans who write to tell me how much they love Dindi and Gwenika and Kavio, and to everyone who made it possible. Thank you all. You make feel like a princess.<\/p>\n

\"The<\/a>\"\"\u00a0\u00a0\"The<\/a>\"\"\u00a0\u00a0<\/div>\n


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The Unfinished Song: Initiate<\/b> — Nook<\/a>, Kindle UK<\/a>, Kindle US<\/a>, Paperback<\/a><\/p>\n

The Unfinished Song: Taboo<\/b> — Nook<\/a>, Kindle UK<\/a>, Kindle US<\/a> <\/p>\n

Look out for The Unfinished Song: Sacrifice<\/b>, coming soon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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